Dec 07

Zainab- Daughter of the Prophet

Zainab Book Cover Zainab
Daughter of the Prophet
Sr. Nafees Khan
Children
Goodword Books
2016
32

 

I have wanted to review a book on Zainab (R.A.), one of the Prophet's daughters and couldn't until I found this book at the Peace & Unity Convention I attended on the 3rd and 4th of this month. It was a soul uplifting experience. That story is for another day.

Zainab is the first in the series of Daughter of the Prophet. The author Sister Nafees Khan did an excellent job of portraying the period of Zainab's life through description and pictures that looked inviting.

The story was told in simple and definite sentences which children would easily understand when they read the book or when read to them. The author told the story in such a way that it flows from the day of her birth, her childhood during the Jahiliyah (Ignorance) period, to before revelation and her marriage and then her life after revelation.

I have always enjoyed reading about Zainab's (R.A) married life to her husband, Abu al 'Aas. Theirs was a romantic union that needed to be emulated to assist the marriages of our time to grow stronger rather than the state they are in . Zainab (R.A) had to save her husband twice from captivity because of the love they had for one another before he finally accepted Islam.

I plan to read to my younger children and allow the older ones read on their own. I know it would serve as a way to motivate my daughters to have role models they can emulate which they need to build their self-confidence.

The book is for the younger readers, but adults can also read it because it isn't bulky and can be completed within half an hour for an avid reader and possibly one hour for the less enthusiastic reader. The portability of the book makes it easier for children to handle.

You can check the book out here for purchase.

Have you read about Zainab(R.A) story before now? If yes, what did you enjoy most about it?

Type your comments in the space below. And do share if you find the review interesting. 🙂

Nov 09

The Windy Hill- Story 10

Wendell Wind loved to listen to the whispers and howls he made by blowing through the oaks’ branches. Because the oak trees grew on the hilltop, Wendell played his music whenever he wanted. His winds blew more and more.

Otis Oak Tree pleaded, “Wendell, could you reduce your wind power? You’re ruining our blooms. Our branches are breaking. My oak tree friends are suffering because of your intensity.

Ha,” said Wendell. “I can blow as hard as I want whenever I want, just because I can.

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After two months of Wendell’s wrath, Otis met with the trees and squirrels. “Sam, we need help,” Otis said to the Squirrel President.

You’ve seen the troubles the Wind causes. Will you ask the squirrels to transport our acorns into the valley? We’ll stop growing up here on the hilltop and spread into the valley instead where the Wind won’t reach. We’ll drop plenty of acorns since you squirrels love to hide them for later.

Sam said, “We’ll start tomorrow. We’ll bury every acorn in the valley. Thanks, Otis!

Soon, new oak trees sprouted in the valley. The hilltop had not one new oak tree. “Oh, no,” said Wendell Wind. “There are not enough branches left. I can’t play my music!

I need new oak trees and fast,” Wendell ordered Otis the next day.

We’ll grow no more oaks up here,” countered Otis.

Why not? Simply tell the hilltop trees to drop more acorns. Order the squirrels to hide them up here.

No, I won’t,” Otis said defiantly. “We’re moving to the valley.

Why?” inquired Wendell.

Just because we can,” quipped Otis.

Before you exercise power, consider its effects on others. What are your thoughts on this?

If you like this story, do share with others. 🙂

 

Oct 19

The Lazy Bird

A story about doing things right the first time.

Melody the lark thought she was ready for winter, until a crow showed up in the middle of the night…

Melody the singing lark lived in a perfect world! Melody lived in Happy Town and was the only bird to call that part of town home. This was her territory and she was free to do whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted.

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As winter approached, it was time for Melody to hunt for worms so that she wouldn’t have to go hunting in the snow. The worms would be her main source of nutrition for the winter. Any other bird would have hidden the worms they caught to keep them away from the crows. But Melody decided against it. After all, this was her territory – no trespassers allowed!

“Hrmph! Why should I be concerned about those pesky crows,” said Melody to herself as she nonchalantly set the worms on an exposed tree branch. “This is my town, and I simply can’t be bothered to hide my meals. I’m the only person who’s allowed to eat them anyway!”

Upon retiring for the night, Melody fell into a deep sleep right next to her worms. Almost immediately, Crank Crow from a neighboring town flew by and noticed the worms.

“Well, would you look at that!” he said, as he swooped down and grabbed up Melody’s worms. “This is the easiest hunt ever! It’s going to be a great winter!”

Poor Melody woke up just in time to see Crank Crow flying off with her entire stash of winter meals.

Almost in tears, and as the snow came falling down, Melody lamented, “If I had only taken the time to protect my precious worms, I wouldn’t have to be hunting for more now in the snow.”

Regardless of how time-consuming the exercise, spend the time to do it right, so things remain under control when it matters most.

Have you ever done just enough to get by instead of giving all you have to give as regards any area of your life?

Let it out and let’s learn from each other’s experiences. And go ahead and share. 🙂

 

Oct 10

The Playful Pup (Short Story 8)

The Playful Pup

A Story about how helping others lifts your spirits.

Donnie Dog thought he lived a fulfilling life, until

Bonnie Bulldog nearly lost hers…

Donnie Dog and Prant Pup were next-door neighbors. They spent their days playing outdoors and exploring. Often, they chased the AbdusSobur’s cat or cornered squirrels high in the big baobab trees that separated their yards.

One day, Prant Pup said, “I’m tired of doing the same old things. Let’s find something new to do. My mom told me that helping others will make me a happier pup. She said, ‘Your life will mean more. You’ll never know how things can change until you volunteer to aid another.’

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Donnie said, “Well, if I want to be happy, I can just chase my tail or eat more treats. Why go to all the trouble of helping another?

As they sauntered down the street, Prant and Donnie heard a high-pitched howl coming from Bonnie Bulldog’s house. Prant Pup exclaimed excitedly, “C’mon! Let’s go see if Bonnie needs help!

Donnie wasn’t sure about helping, but when he saw Prant loping toward the house, he followed.

Luckily, they arrived in time to grab the table leg that had collapsed onto Bonnie using Prant’s sharp teeth and Donnie’s strength. They quickly pulled the table off Bonnie and her pups. “Are you okay?” Prant asked.

Oh, Donnie and Prant, you saved us! My puppies and I would have been crushed if you two hadn’t shown up. How will I ever thank you?” Bonnie said, shaking all over as she licked her puppies lovingly.

I’m so happy we were nearby,” said Donnie, feeling he could conquer anything.

Donnie and Prant looked at each other, realizing they’d done something that really mattered. They felt great joy and confidence as they trotted back home to play.

Help others and your spirits will soar.

How do you feel after you extend a helping hand to others?

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Oct 03

All About Akhlaaq Review

All About Akhlaaq Book Cover All About Akhlaaq
Sr. Nafees Khan
Children
IB Publisher Inc.
2012
Hardcover
55

This was one of the books I’ve enjoyed reading with my children. I started the tradition of having it read out loud after Fajr prayer each day. This book gave a fun way for the children to learn the moral values and good manners required of them to inculcate as they grow up.

The author of All about Akhlaaq used a combination of illustrations and skits between teacher and pupils and skits between friends to pass on the messages. The style got the attention of my kids whenever we learnt one more moral lesson. After each skit, a box at the end recaps a particular lesson taught with a hadith for backup.

A few of the values and good manners included were Forgiveness, Honesty, Justice, Keeping a promise, Lying, Respect and so on.

I especially loved the simple ways the moral lessons were passed through illustrations and clear English.

I recommend the book for families who want fun ways of impacting moral values to their children, and for teachers, as a handy book of valuable lessons to teach pupils by acting it out.

All about Akhlaaq can be purchased online at this link.

What other books with moral values have you read on your own or with your children?

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Sep 26

Open Your Mind and Thrive (Short Story 7)

A story about the benefits of an open mind.

Meem Marsh Wren argued against new ideas until his friends found great success by embracing a satisfying new adventure while he just went hungry…

Bonnie and Benny, Blue Herons, liked to explore new things and places. They recently heard about how cattail plants were growing in Mellow Marsh. They decided to invite their friends, Molly and Meem—both Marsh Wrens—to accompany them to the Marsh.

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Molly squealed, “I’d love to go, especially when cattails are in bloom!”

Meem looked suspiciously at his friends. “It’s great right here at Paradise Pond. Why go all the way over to the Marsh? We’ve got plenty of mosquitoes to eat in our own backyard.”

“It’ll be fun and I want to enjoy the weather and chat along the way. I’m sure we’ll find something to eat at the Marsh,” explained Molly encouragingly.

“I agree,” Benny replied. “Who knows what we’ll find on such an adventure?”

Molly said, “Come on, Meem. It’ll be fantastic!”

Meem harrumphed. “No thanks, I’m staying here where the water’s nice and lunch is nearby.”

Bonnie, Benny, and Molly headed for Mellow Marsh. Upon arrival, they couldn’t believe their eyes! The mosquitoes swarmed everywhere and marsh grasses clumped perfectly for perching. They stuffed themselves and then perched to watch the world go by. They made several new friends, too. It was heavenly!

When they got home, Meem asked, “What took so long?”

“Oh, Meem, Mellow Marsh was wonderful!” Molly gasped. “We ate and watched the Marsh activity and then we ate again. Millions of tender mosquitoes surrounded us! We made new friends, too!”

Meem sighed. “I only caught 3 mosquitoes the whole time! I’m going on the next adventure,” Melvin said as his stomach growled.

Have you been adamant on staying in your comfort zone for so long and scared of venturing out?

Please, let’s hear your thoughts. 🙂

Sep 19

A Mouse Full of Fears (Story 6)

A story about overcoming insecurities in order to give back to a friend

Dida Mouse was afraid she didn’t measure up.

Would inviting over her friend prove she was right?

Dida Mouse chattered excitedly to her mother about her new friend.

“Sonya Mouse is kind and easy to be with. We have many things in common. We love having new adventures.”

Still, Dida felt that she wasn’t as smart, kind, or pleasant as Sonya.

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Although Sonya often invited Dida over, Dida never reciprocated. She was afraid that Sonya would think less of her if she came over. Besides her personal “shortcomings,” Dida also compared her home to Sonya’s and came up short every time.

Dida had a mouthful of fears: “Why can’t I be as inviting and confident as Sonya?” she said to herself. “I can’t bring myself to do it. My carpet has that ugly worn spot. My house isn’t clean enough. Sonya’s a better cook than I am. I don’t know what to do!”

After having tea and dinner at Sonya’s once again, Dida decided, “I must do my part in this friendship. If Sonya doesn’t like me afterward, I’ll just have to deal with it!”

Dida planned a menu and bought a tablecloth. She invited Sonya to her place for dinner. Although Dida feared that she didn’t measure up, she bravely pushed forward with her plan. She cleaned and even invited Mother for a dinner rehearsal!

Mother said, “Everything is lovely! Don’t worry – you’ll do fine.”

As nervous as Dida felt, she was determined to entertain Sonya. After all, Sonya had invited her many times. Sonya was thrilled with Dida’s invitation and accepted happily.

When Sonya arrived, her smile brightened the room. Dida offered, “Welcome! I’m glad you’re here!” Then, they enjoyed a lovely dinner and fun times together once again – and just as good as ever!

Did the story speak to you directly? If yes, can you share any moment you’ve felt like Dida with a friend?

Share away, there’s love in sharing. 🙂

Sep 12

7 Hacks For Memorisation

 

Sep 08

The Hesitant Flower (Story 5)

The Hesitant Flower Book Cover The Hesitant Flower
Raheemah Odusote
Adult
8th September 2016
ebook
5

A Story about the importance of communicating feelings

Imran Iris was crazy about Leenah Lily, but he was afraid to tell her how he felt. Was Imran doomed to be alone forever?

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“Leenah is so beautiful,” Imran said to himself. “I want to spend more time with her. She’s brilliantly orange in color, and she’s so thoughtful. Too bad she is close to Toheeb.”

Imran often saw Leenah Lily during the spring. He closed up emotionally when he was near her and resorted to the usual pleasantries before moving on with his day. Later, Imran’s frustration would set in because he hadn’t shared his feelings.

Meanwhile, Leenah spent time with her classmate, Toheeb Tulip. Even though she sometimes disagreed with Toheeb, Leenah liked the way he said what was on his mind. Still, she didn’t have any feelings for Toheeb. Leenah wondered if she’d ever find another flower that saw something special in her and wanted her as a partner.

One day, a gust of wind blew and when Leenah looked up, she saw Imran Iris there beside her.

“Hi, Leenah. How are you?”

“I am practically getting scattered to the wind! But, it’s good to see you!” Leenah wrapped her long, thin leaves around her lower stem for support against the gusty breeze.

Imran took a deep breath. Hesitantly, Imran replied, “I am okay, but I would be happier if you would be my special flower. I think about you all the time and I want to get to know you better.”

Leenah’s petals opened wide. She felt happy.

“That is wonderful,” she exclaimed. “I’ve been thinking the same thing about you!”

Imran rejoiced and from that day forward, he and Leenah spent their days together, enjoying each other’s company.

Sharing your feelings can be pretty scary. You may be afraid that the person you’re interested in doesn’t share the same feelings. However, if you avoid sharing how you feel, you may be passing up the opportunity for a great relationship.

Do you agree?

Sep 02

How to Raise Better-Behaved Children

How to Raise Better-Behaved Children Book Cover How to Raise Better-Behaved Children
Suruurah Olayinka Ogunfemi
Paperback

The book is written by one of the sisters I know for a while now, and I’ve attended some of her training workshops. She is dedicated to helping parents to overcome parenting woes and stress that abound in various homes, be it, sibling rivalries, fights, quarrels and so on.
One of the lessons- was to focus on what you model to your children, they’ll pick up your traits. Here is an example; “You punched your Brother?” That is not what we do.”- This talk focused on the behaviour and not on the child by dishing out threats, curses, and insults. By using the negative approach, one is definitely stepping out of the boundary. This example by the author put in perspective the act of treating the behaviour rather than its conveyer.
Yelling and other forms of punishment only work for a limited time and doesn’t solve the problem permanently.
The book highlighted issues with the method of children upbringing used by most parents and gave proactive and practical solutions to them.
You just need to lay your hands on the book to get the necessary discipline tools to employ. I assure you that they are really practicable.
I implemented one of the training tools called self-calming. It is working for my son with a bit of struggle, but I intend to continue using it for him during his tantrums.
The book gives the reader tonnes of real life examples that one cannot but pick up and use because of their bright clarity.

I will recommend the book for parents, minders/care givers and teachers.

Where can you get this book, you ask? Here

What actions are you taking on guiding your kids through a proper parenting style? Do you care to share with us?

If you enjoyed reading this review, kindly share with anyone you feel may need it. There is love in sharing.

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